
Most of us understand, at least intellectually, that a relationship doesn’t thrive on autopilot. Friendships weaken when we stop showing up. Marriages drift when we assume love will take care of itself. Even our health fades when we treat it like something we can ignore until it breaks. Yet for some reason, many people approach their relationship with God as if it should be the one area of life that grows without intention, as if showing up occasionally is the same as being connected.
I don’t believe that’s how the spiritual life works.

